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……..if you wish to do this, do look into your own heart centre. And when you look into your heart centre – feel the energy of joy, actually feel this – ask to see ‘joy’ as a golden glowing light and let this golden glowing joy light surround your body form – like a beautiful vibrancy settling around your aura. And then allow this beautiful vibrancy to seep through all your cells – it is like taking a personal body wash of vibrancy. So please do sit and try this and feel your energy vibrancy going up further.

Also, for people that have animals, reach out and touch one of your animals if they are a touchable species when you can. But do not hurry this touching. Just sit or stand quietly and touch your animal. Allow all personal impressions to come to you; you will have to still your mind and then sense your own animal’s characteristics, sense their inner beauty, sense their goodwill, sense their awareness, sense if they have worries, but allow yourself to receive from your beautiful animal in this way. This is being in touch with yourself and being in touch with an animal who has dedicated their life and heart to you, and to your family just as you have dedicated yourself to your animal which is of your heart.

When you are doing the sensing with your beloved animal – feel your senses becoming more heightened and everything becoming quieter, almost like time has little meaning; you don’t have to rush away, you can honour the moment of beauty, you don’t have to be thinking forward of what you are going to do in the next minute. And this small exercise only takes a minute of your time or can take many minutes of your time – NO SEPARATION” 

“Good fortune is so firmly attached to one that has Seal as a Power Animal.

Do you dream big? Do your dreams exceed what you experience? Do your dreams sometimes still your heart due to spectacularness? Do your dreams inspire you? Do your dreams create different positive realities? Do your dreams keep you buoyant and weightless?

These are very important questions that we Seals asks of you. Because if you need to dream big, then turn to Seal to help with your dreams. If you are feeling stifled, turn to Seal to free you. If you lack inspiration, then turn to Seal to bring you the beauty of inspiration. If you need to create different realities, and all have this need at times, then turn to Seal to help you create different realities. Do not become stuck with the past, instead, be the energy of the present and the energy of the future. 

This might seem strange to add the words ‘do not become stuck with the past’ as Seal is of ancientness, but we are also the energy of the present, and of the future, and we are not stuck with the past.

We are aware of the past – poignantly aware of the past – but we are so tuned into the present energy then this means we can create new.

As has been shared that part of Seals’ role here on Earth is to be so highly aware of the energy of the planet. And to be in this role, then we are working with the present energy, but we are also aware of how the energy was in the past, but we are not stuck with this – we are also so greatly aware that the present will allow the future.

Do you believe in parallel lives, parallel universes? Maybe you don’t believe in parallel lives, parallel universes? But if you do believe in parallel lives and parallel universes, and wish to investigate these further, then allow Seal to be a guide for you.

If you have a strong association with Lemuria or are fascinated with Lemuria, then you will most likely capture some of the Seals’ essences with you, and part of your soul will be captive of Lemuria. But this isn’t to keep you stuck because being aware of the wisdom that isn’t of the present will still allow you to be present. And there will be times when your own wisdom will jump forward with complete ease, and you will astound yourself because of your wisdom and also astound others.

Seals can teach you to listen to your own song of specialness. We all capture our own song, and the notes that are relating to you will vibrate at their own beauty, their own tempo, their own sacredness.

If you wish to hear your own ‘song’, then turn to Seals and feel our presence, feel our power, feel the lyrical musical notes come forward of your own song. 

Many famous composers, musicians and ones that love music with a passion have Seal accompanying them.

You would have heard of the legends of the Mermaid Sirens, whose music entrapped sailors but also set them free. Maybe you have heard of the Selkies? The stories of the Selkies were recorded centuries ago.

“When angels fell, some fell on the land, some on the sea. The former are the faeries, and the latter was often said to be the Seals.” Anonymous Orcadian

Mermaids, Mermen, and Selkies have captured imaginations for a very long time, and these are reminders of Lemuria. And there is always truth in legends. Mythological legends hold great truth, not how you weigh the truth of having to have material evidence that you can see or feel, but just knowing is also the truth. And these legends of the Merpeople have come about due to us Seals, due to the ancientness of our roots that capture so much importance, so much possibility. And ones that see Mermaids, Mermen, and Selkies are linking back to the various ‘Worlds’ caught in this time frame but a captive of other time frames of realities.

Mermaids are sometimes portrayed as horrible monsters, but if you look at the words that we Seals have shared ‘You would have heard of the legends of the Mermaid Sirens, whose music entrapped sailors but also set them free.’ And maybe if you alter the word ‘entrapped’ with the words ‘held captive in the heart’ as the heart will always set one free.

We Seals are a Power Animal of the heart and can set you free due to helping you be in your heart and becoming more aware. Maybe Seal isn’t the Power Animal for you due to you do not feel a connection to Lemuria but remember, Seal is of the heart, and therefore we are not controlling who works with us or who doesn’t work with us. But if you want to be more in the heart of your own self and you are struggling with this, then turn to Seal, but if you are not in your heart, Seal will try and instruct you on this but only if you are ready for this as the heart will set you free.”

2024 Messages

GIRAFFES

2024, our insights on the energy of 2024.

2024 is a period of creation, but each & every year is a period of transformation, each & every day is a period of transformation, each & every hour is a period of transformation, and each minute is a period of transformation.

But 2024 is profoundly creation; this means that during 2024, a lot will happen, so hold onto your hats and steer yourself well.

Because of the pace of 2024, you will need to be grounded, you will also need to be disciplined, you will also need to be aware, and you will also need to take time out of where you give yourself permission to shut out the world & focus on yourself.

2024 is about reaching for the stars, stepping into your divine wisdom, uniting your masculine & feminine energy, and allowing new to become the new you!

Of course, when becoming the new you, there will be challenges that you will encounter, and the road at times can be rocky but do not see the path that you are walking as a test; instead, see it as an opportunity for growth.

During 2024, you will emerge into many New Yous – an era of metamorphosis awaits you. Hey, New You, be excited.

TORINO WOLFHOUND

Delighted to be sharing.

Friends, Giraffes have shared wise words,

My insights into 2024, I could share a library of insights about 2024, but I will condense my insights….

The crystalline grids have altered — during 2024 the crystalline grids will keep on atlering and because of this, your energetic body will have phases of being out of sync.  Some call this upgrading; some call this awakening; some call this ascension; some call this the Age of Aquarius, and some call this the Golden Age.

When you are being upgraded, I need you to believe in yourself and to understand that if you are going through a phase of your energetic body being out of sync, you can reclaim your energy.

Let me give you a little bit of guidance on supporting yourself whilst you are going through a phase of experiencing another awakening & being upgraded.

Visualise your physical body blueprint in front of you.

Visualise your soul star’s blueprint above you. 

Visualise your crystalline blueprint below you.

Then, visualise your three blueprints aligning immediately in front of you & BECOMING ONE, and in turn supporting your physicality.

Many people suggest that they are experiencing ascension symptoms, and for some, this is true, but it isn’t true for all.   You must be sensible, and if you are seedy, there could be a health reason, and you must seek medical care and, if this appeals to you, also holistic care alongside the medical.

2024, regardless of your age & health, is a year of balance, and to have balance, you will have to be aware of your well-being, and this can be through exercise, good company, nutrition, clean water, and holistic & necessary medical care.  There has to be balance in all that you do. There has to be balance in relationships. There has to be balance in your educational or working life.  There has to be balance in communities and so on.  I can hear your whispers, your questions of ‘it doesn’t matter what year, or what day it is there has to be balance’ and yes, this is true, but for 2024, what isn’t in balance you will have to balance, because if something isn’t in balance the cracks will be demonstrative, and the struggles will be harder.

I stated last year (2023) that there would be three dominant awakening periods, and that there would also be seven other awakening periods. Because of how the energy was in 2023 and of how fast the energy was moving – yes, there were three dominant awakening periods, but there were actually nine other awakening periods.

For the year of 2024, what I can sense at this stage is that there will be two massive awakening periods and twelve other awakening periods; 2+12 adds up to 14, and in numerology (1+4), this is 5. 5 in numerology is a spirited dance through the myriad possibilities that life offers, encouraging you to embrace flexibility and the willingness to break free from old patterns and constraints.

Now, to chat about the year 2024 in numerology, this is an 8-year (2+0+2+4=8)., and this number will be driving the energy of 2024.

An 8-year carries the resonance of power, abundance, and the manifestation of material & spiritual goals.

2024 will challenge you to step into your power – don’t be shy about stepping into your power – power is positive – your powerful self is your ally and not your foe – this isn’t about ego, but about being true to yourself, of commanding yourself, of connecting your physicality with your spirituality, of living with the gateway of your soulscape wide open and embracing your spirituality but also embracing the physicality.

An 8-year is about the balance between the spiritual & physical realms. 2024 will beckon you to recalibrate and take stock. 2024 is a year to offer your gifts to the world, to face trials & tribulations with a fortified spirit, and to seek inner guidance from the depths of your soul.

An 8-year is a powerful ally. It’s a year to be bold, to lead with vision, and to unite souls in the pursuit of a higher collective harmony.

2024 is a year to ignite growth – your flame if you allow it will burn bright.  You are a beacon of light, and the light that is beaconing you is your powerful self – stepping into more of your true self.

I hope my words have stirred up your imagination, I hope my words have given you guidance, and I hope my words of aligning your blueprints will support you.

I will advise this, please do not focus your energy on what is out of your control because that will cause imbalance, and understand changes are underfoot – changes are happening, and when going through changes, sometimes the old energy will be present so that the old energy can be resolved or released.  Because of old energy, this can stir up and cause tension in relationships, tension in working environments, tension in communities and also political tension. I will chat briefly about political – there are ones that have stepped onto or stepping onto the political stage to hold the light, and they will have to battle to conquer – battle this isn’t about warring with another country instead it is about creating changes, of anchoring in the new spectrums, the rays of light, so that the planet can have leverage.

2024 can be a year of undoing clearing restoring and this applies to conservation efforts, and finding a greener cleaner way of being but this will only come about if there can be less hostility and laying down of the weaponry of arms and locking arms with the mission of creating greener cleaner.

Friends, I will share an Irish Blessing with you “May love and laughter light your days, and warm your heart and home. May good and faithful friends be yours, wherever you may roam. May peace and plenty bless your world with joy that long endures. May all life’s passing seasons bring the best to you and yours!”

THREE-TOED SLOTHS ‘loyalty, charm & living with ease of purpose’
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It has been ages since I last blogged, but I thought over the next few months I would start sharing again some of the  beautiful insightful messages from the Animal Kingdom that have been shared in the newsletters.

Three-Toed Sloths are so sedentary that algae actually grows on their furry coat, their algae greenish tinted coat provides Three-Toed Sloths with a natural camouflage in their forested environment.

From the Consciousness of Three-Toed Sloths

“Our World is the same as your World, we have perils & pitfalls to overcome, we have to be selective in what we do & this is no different for you is it!

We move in our bodies, we see things through our eyes, we taste through our mouths, and we hear through our ears just like the majority of humans do. But our sensing of the World is different than yours, we move at the pace that we do and some might suggest the pace is leisurely but our pace is perfect for us, it allows us to experience every nuance and even though the speed that we travel at this can endanger us as we cannot get away from fast moving machinery or from predators who have the ability to move at the speed of light compared to our speed.

On occasions we do sometimes move at a reasonable pace, or what we see as a reasonable pace but even when we move at a reasonable pace things are ‘slower more sure more steady more calm’ except if we were frightened or terrified then our energy would still be moving at a reasonable pace but with energy of worry tagging along with us.

If you could slow life down for a day what would you feel, would you get bored due to life is too slow for you? If you actually slowed life down for a day then your sensing is also slowed down so it isn’t like you would be waiting for time instead you would be in sync with time, just as you are now, just as we are in sync with time.

We absorb so much due to the speed that we travel, due to the speed that we associate with, due to the speed of our own time, and this is a special experience for us. The opportunity to be in our bodies is terrific, we glorify being who we are, and we are the ancient old men or old women of some of the rain-forests of this World.

We are privileged to live where we live but the privilege is being stripped away from us due to man’s interference in the natural cycle of earth – destroy the forests and you also destroy the cycles of earth.

As a species we are humanitarians & create and this is due to many live on us. Our fur captures algae, our fur contains cracks that collects rainwater & acts as it’s own eco-system which allows algae & other life forms to live on us. The other life forms that live on us many are unique, we also have a need for some of the insects that we host, a need for the algae to assist us with camouflage – all that live on us are normally in harmony with us and we in turn are normally are in harmony with them – no wonder we are humanitarians. Our actual species energy also creates a nurturing energy to our forested areas – this is our actual energy that sings out to the forest – a nurturing energy of beauty.

Cities that are fast can be on our doorsteps and we might venture out into your cities and what we see through our eyes & what we sense through our energy when we view the city life is incredible. What we see if we journey into your cities is that when you humans are walking through your cities we see and feel every footstep, we feel the vibration deep within the earth of the moving traffic, we hear noises that are varied, we see litter lying on the ground, we also see poverty,and we see humans who are shamed by their actions that they do unto others but we also see humans who are energy of gladness. The only way to explain what we see to you so that you understand further what we see… if you looked at an old movie that was on set on a slow speed and this speed will allow the movie to capture every tiny bit of movement and depending on the speed of the movie it might even capture the hair moving on arms or even veins of plants full of vitality due to the brilliance of movement is captured. We are ‘still’ but ‘we are not still’ because we experience so much.

What special messages do we have to share with humans who are receptive to hearing from us, and that is the message of ‘loyalty, charm & living with ease of purpose.’

Being loyal to what you love and if you love this planet then you will act loyal in your actions.

Being charming in the footsteps that you take – watch our movement then you will know what it is meant by ‘being charming in the footsteps that you take’ as every footstep that we take is charming and even though we are mainly use our arms for navigation through the forested areas that are our homes we are moving – this is footsteps of great charm as we are loving the experience the joy of movement and we are not sedentary in what we do as we are moving with charm, pleasure, with hope and with forward.

Of course we do not expect you to move at our pace & we are not asking you to walk slow everywhere you go INSTEAD we are suggesting that you walk with charmed footsteps so that in your journey you find fulfillment, carry hope for others, and bring forward positivity.

Charmed is a word that is sometimes associated with magic but do look for the magic in yourself, be aware of that you are magical, that you capture your own intensity of life and the intensity of life is of great specialness.

We see ourselves as magical due to our experiences are not stifled in what we feel.

Ease of purpose, what quaint speech we capture but this is being purposeful in what you do but also being at ease in what you do, you could play with these words further and if you think of ‘ease & purpose’ then maybe you also have to be easier on yourself, easier on others, easier on your environment and have purpose when you are in this energy of being easier with purpose then you will actually achieve more. Do not replace ‘easier’ with words of ‘lazy’ or ‘sedentary’ because then you will not achieve with lazy purpose because you will snuff out your feelings or your ability to do.

You might think we are resentful towards humans due to what we have shared but we are not resentful we are concerned Citizens of the World and this is ‘Our World’ – Our World is Your World”

I received this message from a lovely sensitive friendoh Faye… how do I overcome such sadness when I see posts of animals suffering? And I know it’s just one post. But know also there are sooooo many more. It’s such a heavy down-heartening feeling…sometimes I just want to go off fb and know nothing….sooo much heartbreak”

I can really relate to the question asked of me. Daily I am a getting bombarded with pictures & stories on social media, television and other media of cruelty & plights dished out to people, to animals, and destruction to the environment. Also silently in my consciousness I am aware that the barbaric practices of Taiji are happening again.  I read a couple of weeks ago that so called beggars in China cut off a camel’s hooves, and they transport the camel around asking for money for the care of the camel, cruelty & exploitation of another animal. Camels are dignified special animals, and to be treated so disgustingly is beyond actual words.

At times I feel so crushed, so heartbroken at what I have viewed, so suffocating under the weight of it all and I have asked myself many a time when will it all stop. At times my fragility is so incredibly high, and I wonder if I can bear it any more So many times I want to shut myself away, not view all the dreadfulness, I have this great need to be in the energy of totally harmony but then I also know that this also doesn’t help others, doesn’t raise awareness.

And yes, I do share some of the awfulness on my own Facebook social media as I feel such a need to speak out for others, and my Facebook business page will be controversial due to this. If you regularly visit my Facebook business page, you will have noticed sometimes I am incredibly pro-active speaking out for others, and then I might go for a phase that I am not pro-active & I am only sharing the nice beautiful stories that also touch us so greatly. When I am in energy of wondering if I can bear it any more I tend to only share softer postings.

But then I rally around again and being so passionate for the well-being of others I also know that through sharing my voice, and of many voices sharing of inhumane actions we are speaking out as a mass consciousness energy that will bring in massive changes and this will light the way forward for more awareness, and through more awareness more will be achieved. And knowing this helps me I can either allow myself to feel powerless and not able to do anything or I can hopefully make a difference by speaking out and when I step into energy of truly knowing that I am making a difference I can step into energy of feeling like I am doing something, and that even though I am one person that through my voice and my actions I am also encouraging others to be more aware, more pro-active, and also raising the consciousness, and by raising the consciousness this will bring in more changes over time. Mass consciousness awareness is so important, as we shift into higher consciousness awareness and as more become more & more aware and speak out against what is no longer acceptable then that this energy is held and anchored.

I thought I would ask my beautiful dog Hero (female) if she has any advice to share that can help us  from becoming saturated with the suffering of others that then leaves us feeling powerless.

 “Dearest sentient friends,

Honour your feelings, treasure yourself and to help you free yourself from taking on the suffering of others – feel in your 3rd chakra which rests between your naval and your heart – feel this power centre as this is the power centre of personal power and governs self-esteem and this power centre captures your warrior energy, and the power of transformation.

You have to really feel this power centre, so don’t rush doing this, but settle your energy, and tune your energy into yourself.

And as you feel this power centre and then feel this power energy displayed directly out from you, as a radiant beam of bright yellow light. Feel the warmth, the power that this power centre holds but also feel this power centre cleansing your aura and start to feel yourself being cleansed and then being totally cleansed and this will hopefully help you deal with viewing through media the atrocities that are being played out against another or against many.  

This is also a good exercise to do before logging onto social media sites, or watching news, or reading newspapers or other media that are portraying dreadful ordeals. 

Also being aware that when you log into social media sites you might also be leaving your own energy open for others to tune into your energy. To explain this further if you sharing your insights or something that you are feeling then others will be tuning into you and this can also energetically drain you, and you might have experienced at times after visiting social media sites felt incredibly drained but by doing this simple exercise you are working with your own power, you are holding your own power, and setting up a wall a barrier of defence to protect your own energy.  

Love to you all, Hero”

 

I asked Facebook community what they would like me to blog about relating to Animal Communication or Animal Healing.

Sheryl asked these questions: “Communicating to a beloved animal whom has passed on. How to tell if that animal is still around you?”

Firstly I will touch on: ‘How to tell if your beloved animal is still around you?’.

Our beautiful animal companion/s that have shifted into the heavenly realms are forever in our hearts and we are forever in their hearts, and at various times they will try and show us that they are still around us. We of course have to be receptive to the signs.

Signs can be:

  • Static electricity: lights flickering.
  • If it is a species that you have allowed to sleep on your bed, you might feel a distinct weight on the bed, or on waking you might feel or even see an indent on the bed.
  • If you live with multiple animals of the same species as your animal that has passed on: when you go to feed your other animals, and you feel like you are missing one bowl/feed bucket/feed dish and there should be another bowl/bucket/dish that needs to be filled – you will be sensing your animal’s energy. Or you have enough food out for the animals that you are going to feed but you have a need to grab another handful of food.
  • Hearing sounds: which could be depending on species – scratching at a door (if your cat or dog did this), footsteps, rustling of feathers, movement noise, neigh, bark, meow, whistle, snuffling, croaking, squeeking.
  • Seeing their form

This happened to me back in the late 1980’s. Morag a beautiful sweetheart steel grey Wolfhound bitch that we had the privilege of Morag living with us for approx. 9 months [we lived in Auckland, North Island]. Morag had returned to her family [Christchurch, South Island] &  had been back with her family Cath & Mike for quite a few years but this day I felt a need to look out the cottage window and there was an extra dog running past the window –  a steel grey Wolfhound bitch running with my tribe of Wolfies & I counted the dogs as they were running past the window – my bitches were silver brindle & various shades of red brindles, and the boys were sable & steel grey. The only steel grey wolfhound was boy Bran who was enormous in size & frame. Blink blink I went outside, thinking that maybe someone had popped in to visit with their Wolfhound – no visitors.   About 20 minutes later the phone rang to let us know that Morag had just passed away and the time coincided.

  • Smells, and this can be smelling your pet’s natural odour.
  • Other animals that you live with, and depending on species – your other animal/s might be making room for the one that has passed on  through sharing of their bedding, or even plonking themselves down oddly so that they do not lie on the animal in spirit’s ‘spiritual energetic form’, or making room at a gate or at a fence line.
  • Feathers.

Last weekend I was thinking about one of my own animals who is in spirit, and I was actually doing some hand weeding around a Animal Communication, Animal Whispererfootpath and I couldn’t help see this sign. I had only taken a few steps and gazed at what I had just weeded and there on the footpath was a large white feather – there was no wind up – there was no bird flying overhead and as I had just weeded around the area of the path I would have noticed the feather less than a minute ago. And another occasion after Hero had passed I found an extraordinarily giant white feather outside my bedroom door – we don’t have birds this size living around our house. An enormous hole in my heart and an enormous feather to represent Hero’s love for her family. Photo: of recent feather found, and the ginormous feather found on Waitangi Day just after Hero had passed away – this is the largest white feather I have ever seen.

  • Through our dreams – our dreams can tell us so much, and our beloved animal might be spending time with you whilst you are in dream state.
  • Your attention is drawn to look at something and it could be a heart shaped stone, or seeing something unusual that has significant meaning to you.
  • You might be doing something and an unexpected memory comes tumbling in very fast of your beautiful companion animal, and the memory feels so real, like it is the present time. Your beloved animal could be trying to tell you that they are still with you.
  • Messenger Animals: which take many forms, and this could be another one of your animals acting out of character in some way and replicating what your animal in spirit would have done. And a messenger animal could also be a really rowdy bird who has taken up residence outside your bedroom window just after your pet has passed. Or Butterflies flittering fluttering around you after your pet has passed.
  • Rainbows.
  • Temperature changes – you might feel warmer or slightly colder than you would normally and the temperature change is very brief.
  • Hearing music playing that isn’t of this world.
  • Hearing buzzing noises in your ears.
  • Orbs that can sometimes be seen with the naked eye or captured on digital cameras/phones.
  • Deep peace – you are grieving but you feel this deep peace, a stillness, a silence of beauty, almost like time has stopped…and your beloved pet is trying to tell you that they are at peace and trying to comfort you.

Sometimes when we are at our most vulnerable we are more sensitive to energy and our sensories are higher. Grief affects us all differently, and for some people due to their heartache they are more aware more in-tune and they can naturally feel their beautiful beloved animal.  For other people who are grieving they will  completely shut down their sensories. 

Sheryl’s other question: “Communicating to a beloved animal whom has passed.”

A few simple steps to feel the presence of your beloved animal companion

  • Find somewhere you can close out the world for a little while, this could be your bedroom, or the garden, or your office desk, or you might want to go to a park/beach/forest
  • Allow yourself to be – don’t argue with any impressions that come to you
  • Feel grounded & centered
  • Feel inner quiet
  • Feel your heart energy (emotional heart)
  • Ask your beloved animal to step forward
  • Feel your beloved animal’s presence, feel their energy
  • Feel their heart energy, feel the connection from your heart to their heart
  • Feel yourself looking into their eyes, feel connected
  • Talk to them and this could be through verbal words spoken out, or mental words
  • You might want to record any impressions in a journal. Take note of any impressions you receive – you might hear an actual word, or you might receive a sentence, or you might feel emotions shared with you, you might receive visual impressions – you might hear unusual sounds, you might be receptive to smells or taste  – be open to receiving – again allow yourself to be – don’t argue with the impressions that come to you

The Messages that Faye receives from Animals in Spirit

When I receive requests to communicate with Animals in Spirit the messages are incredibly deep & the messages holds much light & energy of love – these special beautiful messages offer great support to the family & are deeply healing. They do take longer than a general communication due to the animal is sharing a lot of energy & I am holding the animal’s energy whilst this is happening. If I am doing a written transcript: healing/loving energy is captured in the words – so the words are not just literal words due to energy transference, and the messages are for the present time but will also deliver different impressions when re-read at a later date due to they are energetic messages.  If doing a phone or Skype or face-to-face session, sometimes the animal will channel healing energy through me that is then transferred to the person/s that I am talking direct to – so we might end up doing a healing session.  Animal’s in Spirit will also share what they feel is relevant and they might dismiss some questions that are asked of them, out of respect to the animal I do not push them to answer things that they feel are irrelevant and this could be ‘what was your favourite food’ as they are more interested in sharing what they feel needs to be heard and this could be relating to their ‘person’ needs, or sharing of love, then sharing the mundane which has no bearing to them now.